The Next Chapter – Secret #7 Consulting with Guides

I’m taking part in an online book blogging club called The Next Chapter. This post is part of our discussion about The 12 Secrets of Highly Creative Women. Feel free to jump in to the conversation here or with some of the other posts about secret #7.

This chapter was a bit difficult for me to wrap my head around.  I’m stubbornly independent, so I don’t generally seek or consult with guides very often.  I’m too proud for that.  I don’t like the feeling of scrutiny when I work too closely with someone.  I like being in the background, watching and observing, absorbing guidance quietly from the world around me in an unassuming kind of way. 

First

Thinking back on my life, I’ve had a few different avenues from which I’ve gleaned inspiration and guidance.  When I was quite young, and my social interactions controlled and guided by my family, my guides were largely fictional – characters who were first introduced to me from TV movies and then the books that inspired them.  Books and movies have continued to inspire and guide me.  I’ve moved beyond being absorbed in a good story and become more involved with the mechanics of what makes a story a good one.

Then

When I was in high school, I think I had a void of creativity.  It was all about survival for me.  I didn’t feel as though there was much guidance available from any source that would help me get through the drama of high school.

Now

As an adult, especially recently, I’ve been seeking out guidance and finding it in some unexpected places.  One of the best guides I had was a University professor.  I don’t remember her name or the name of the class, though the name Lynn rings a bell and the class must have been some sort of English teacher education class.  The exercises seemed to speak to me personally and show me how to fire my imagination and put my strengths to good use.

I’ve also taken to throwing myself into new experiences and keep my eyes open for whatever I might find there.  From real-life classes, lectures, to online groups, websites, message boards, and challenges.  I’m becoming increasingly active at seeking out guidance.  That’s probably why I’m making such progress at developing my writing, my imagination, and enjoying the creation process.